In short:
* Intercourse without condom is painful: rolling back the foreskin is without discomfort, anything beyond that causes a sharp burning pain. (the pain pulling on my frenelum used to be a numb pain)
* Intercourse with condom or masturbation is no problem
* Day to day activities are as always
* Not sure what caused the cut/rip; In the way I've lived it, I received small cuts causing my foreskin to scar and losing flexibility (which I've threated with a creme and would heal within a couple of days) Until a critical point was reached and my frenelum ripped entirely. While removing the contractive coil, it was at that moment clear the thick nylon threads could be a definate cause. By the time I went to see the urologist, it was already scarred up and tensed up.
The appointment was quick: I explained the swelling and how the threads have "dissapeared a week ago". He seemed a bit surpriced, so I was worrying for nothing. (and mistook his "after 3 weeks you can resume sexual activity")
While inquiring whether it's a common problem where the contractive coil had been malplaced, causing penile damage in order to know whether my gf can use the same anticonception (the hormonal ring is causing problems).
He brushed off my question to look at the result of the operation. I persisted later to be received with the explination it was a "combination of circumstances". According to him, my frenelum would always have been too short even though I never had any problem in 14 years of sexual activity.
After I had explained how the scar-tissue is pulling and is giving a sharp pain during intercourse he prescribed me cream to make the scartissue soft, which would speed up the healing. He mentioned I wouldn't need to pass by him anymore and would make a report for my general doctor.
Where to go from here?
I guess waiting it out a bit and continue with the creme and condoms.
And stop putting my penis inside someone when it causes some discomfort, even slight.
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